331. Do You Have Safe & Protective Energy?
I made a TikTok talking about this a while ago. And hear me out… it’s not a fool-proof method, but it’s an interesting test.
I discovered this when I was waiting for the train one day while underground. It was a little bit of a cramped space, but I looked around and realized… if something were to happen, I would “intuitively” want to be next to certain people rather than others. Now don’t get me wrong, my energetic body is incredibly unique. Just because I feel safe around certain people, doesn’t mean that they are the safest person on earth. My feelings are incredibly relative. But it made me wonder…
If you are a person who is “emitting” safe and secure energy, do you find that people tend to “flock” around you? It was pretty evident to me that I proactively avoided people who I did not feel safe and secure around, and ultimately were standing closer to people whom I did.
If you are a person emitting “high vibes”, you may find that people flock to you, stand/crowd around you, or perhaps even want to proactively chat with you or listen to you. I do think that there may be a slight difference between “high vibes” as well as “safe and secure” energy. Perhaps “safe and secure” energy is more about not feeling or being threatened. So you may even take it for granted that they are there. This may mean that your’e simply around these people, and maybe even talking over them. But it may be that for people who have high vibrational energy, you may be generally attracted to them, if not intimidated by them, meaning that you may want to approach them and engage in conversation. But I think that there can be unlimited intentions and desires, and again, it’s relative to every person.
If you find that people mentally/emotionally or physically are proactively avoiding you, there may be a reason why. It might not just be physical space, right? Are you a safe person for people to come and talk to? To be around? Why or why not? It can be challenging to understand how other people see you. But here’s the true test: How do you feel on any given day? How do you feel about yourself? Consider that the concepts and themes that you’re struggling with, may be the ones you struggle with for other people, as well. You could hit the nail on the head with the “answer”.
The intention of this post is not to make people feel insecure or to overthink, it may be to get down to the nitty gritty and understand why you’re not getting the reception and response from others that you’re looking for. Prioritize making yourself feel safe and secure, and know that these “vibes” will reverberate off of you, and others will certainly want to join your company.
