348. Family Dynamics From A Metaphysical POV
As I’m home, there’s no better time to talk about families and family dynamics. Although part of me just wants to keep it somewhat of an ambiguous mystery, as sometimes intellectualization takes away the magic and fun. But I do realize that there are some people out there who’s ancestry line has caused them quite a detriment. They not only struggle to find their place within their family, but they struggle to know what to do with the karma, or worse, the trauma they’ve inherited. It’s important to speak about families from a metaphysical perspective, because even for a time being, we can remove ourselves from the emotion.
From my channeling, there’s a very strong tie that we share with our ancestry line on an energetic and biological perspective. I find that often times we get too caught up in the physical when we are describing our similarities and differences. As an example, you may find yourself to be a creative person in a creative field, but your ancestry line is not. Consider that creativity is inherently spiritual, and as long as they are using spirituality as a mode or method of distilling energetic information, they are still simultaneously “creative”. We have a tendency to put things in boxes and categorize it, but we only do this from our limited knowledge and from our perspective in a matrixed reality. Things are much more grey than they seem.
When two people come together and have a child, this child is not just a mix of all of their energetic parts, but of course their parents before them. I often times find that families tend to cycle past lives with each other. Whenever I am reading a client, typically there’s a strong correlation between three generations. For the grandparents of the generation, they tend to hang around on the other side until things are “wrapped up”. There’s a flow of 3-4 generations sticking close to each other at any given point in time. I think that some clients are surprised to hear from people whom they were not close with here in the physical world in a mediumship reading. But the truth is that we hold deeper energetic connections with people, and it transcends beyond this very brief point and place in time. We tend to be similar to those we’ve never known in this lifetime. I find that’s why a lot of people on the other side come forward. They want to share where a client may get certain ideas or characteristics. There tends to be a lot of validation in this. Often times we can quantify our struggles or concepts and themes that we go through by investigating our family line.
I always like to say that even if you don’t believe in metaphysics, you certainly believe in nature and nurture. We know and understand that there are certain inherited traits. Additionally, if there’s an energy that a family member possesses, there’s a good guarantee that in some way shape or form, they are going to project this energy onto their children. Their children have the option to transmute this (resolve it), or carry it on to another generation. Whatever a certain person is struggling with, it may be impossible to “hold it in”. Unless they want to live an extremely inauthentic, and likely unemotional life. Energy is energy, and it has to go somewhere.
So the question really is… why is anything the case? Why do you incarnate at a certain point in time dealing with particular concepts and themes? I find that our past lives have something to do with it. At any given point in time, there are energies which are closer and farther away from us. And everyone at some point, tends to go through the same thing. Due to laws of balance, not all human beings can possible deal with the same energetic themes at one time. This would be irrational, as no one would learn from each other, and no one would have opposing strengths and weaknesses. If we imagine that certain themes share their own unique energetic signatures, there must be an equal number of all of them in order for the universe to maintain balance. So if you’re struggling with something, it’s simply just a “matter of time”. As we move through different lives, our experiences pile up (meaning positive and negative ones). Sometimes it’s our main “job” to transmute lots of old, negative and stagnant energy from past lives. It depends on person to person. The world keeps turning, and sometimes it’s our “time”, and other times it’s not. Speaking of difficult lives, I often times observe that we tend to go through challenging lives, and “buffer” lives, or essentially lives which are quite calmer in between. Admittedly, often times I read clients whom are going through challenging lives. After all, they need some answers and extra added support.
We never really ask ourselves questions about why things are the way that we are. Why do we have a nuclear family unit? The short answer is that despite gender, there’s a bringing together of divine masculine and divine feminine energies, which in turn, creates new energies. Theoretically, throughout every family unit, there would be somewhat of a balance of both, including children. This can of course change and ebb and flow over time. There’s no particular rules with it, just simply observations. As generations go on in the physical world, there’s a natural flow of energies. Older generations typically have more wisdom and provide more protection. Younger generations have more naivety and require more protection. New and old, in essence. But what does this mean as we continue to evolve as humans?
The entire point of family lines is that concepts and themes are transmuted. Resolved. Made better than before. The intention is that they continue to change and evolve and get better. You never want to go in the opposite direction. However let’s keep in mind that at a certain point, a concept or theme must be resolved, and a new one must emerge. Whatever is next in the “cycle”. It’s somewhat interesting to observe family lines which discontinue, however realistically, this is not a new phenomenon. It simply means that this energy source is “cut off”, and must be renewed again, under some particular set of circumstances. Maybe it’s a new family in this dimension (although I find it unlikely, as the intention in similar circumstances was not tog o on), maybe it’s to spend more time evolving on the other side. Maybe it’s to go into a different dimension. The opportunities are likely endless. One may question whether continuing a family line is useless. But I not only find it to not be useless, but imperative to “close the book”, so to speak. Humans are choosing what they want to start and end. What they want finished or resolved. However, choosing to not have children certainly doesn’t make you exempt to whatever that timeline or flow of energy is going. It just means that it will eventually change. Having children is essentially the second part of the chapter. You’ve learned all you can learn for yourself (brief description, of course we learn forever), and now it’s time to share these learnings with others. It’s an incredibly interesting and intricate process.
The best way I can describe families is the perfect conditions/opportunities to grow and evolve. Although some people may be incredibly frustrated with their family dynamic or even leave their families, I find that there’s always a particular reason why, which an individual can run with or run away from. To sum up, families are about growth and evolution, and it’s important that we treat them as such. The more we run from our own problems, the more this will be projected onto our families. Although this can be said for other close connections, such as friends, our biological families provide the concept and theme framework for which we need to fulfill these outcomes. For those not with their biological family, I find that we still carry on this same karma, however we become enlightened of it and execute it in a slightly different way.
