403. How To Not Pass Down Ancestry Trauma

I had a very interesting conversation with a client recently and this particular person, amongst many other people I talk to have a concern. And that concern is that their ancestry trauma will ultimately be passed down to preceding generations. In this one particular example, my client let me know that they were experiencing many of the things, negatively, that their ancestors did. And if they were living the same life as their ancestors, why on earth would they not pass it down and therefore… perpetuate this vicious cycle? 

It’s not only a great question but it’s something I would have a hard time answering if I wasn’t channeling. Thankfully, I was already “in the zone” and was able to come up with something I didn’t totally expect. My gut reaction to this question would of course be… the proactive transmission of energy. Despite going through negative situations or circumstances, so long as you’re “healed”, you won’t be passing it down. But how true is that? Is everyone completely healed, and not passing down ancestry trauma? And vice versa? It simply can’t be. We’re entirely too much of imperfect beings. But maybe I’m wrong. Maybe anything and everything unhealed does attach and form onto us or within us. But maybe it’s never quite triggered for us to work through. Or maybe we’re so entirely used to it, that we don’t think it was a problem. I do wonder sometimes how we would exist, react and behave as human beings if we analyzed each and every part of our lives. And although our initial instinct is to think it’s totally fine… what if we suppose or assume it’s not? And then work toward finding a better, more brilliant solution. This is of course why I recommend anyone and everyone continue to travel and open themselves up to new (and different/unique) options, opportunities and experiences.

Back to the question at hand, what does prevent us from passing down ancestry trauma? To be honest, a thorough analysis/investigation in terms of acknowledgment and acceptance.. will do. And I don’t even think you need to thoroughly get to the acceptance part. Even the acknowledgment does the work. And what work is that? It’s simply the work of not rejecting or repressing energies anymore. Not ignoring it. Because when we ignore our problems, issues, behavioral traits, character flaws, etc., we will alway continue to perpetuate them. Because we don’t feel that they are an issue or a big deal, and we neglect to understand the truth or the point in terms of how we are acting, behaving, or how this energy is interrupting or ruining our lives. So it inevitably runs rampant. When we have a warped relationship with a concept or theme, we indirectly pass this on to others, because this energy is pervasive. Keep in mind that you may not physically perform the exact same behaviors as a parent, however, you will likely experience them in some way shape or form. Perhaps if your parents were more outward abusers, you may be more of an internal abuser. So it can be challenging to pick up on these concepts and themes when we are too busy looking at the physical manifestation.

So to sum up? The acknowledgment, awareness and perhaps even acceptance will limit, if not completely halt the passing down of ancestry trauma, because it lacks repression, meaning that this energy will not continue to exist undetected. There is a higher change of a solvable solution, steps to remedy, and opportunities to address. Now I’m not saying that in every instance it will either 0% or 100% fall into this category, as we are all different, and sometimes our problems are a bit more complex than we are consciously aware of at any given time, so this may not be an exact science. But I also strongly advise that everyone lean into committing to affirming and intention setting. How to control that you won’t pass on ancestry trauma to your own children? Make the commitment now, and to yourself. And so long as you are firm in your beliefs and are open to accepting help, you won’t.