100. Why Passed Loved Ones Aren’t Privy To Family Drama

It’s not uncommon for me to receive questions about passed loved ones and what they think about a certain family situation, or perhaps a decision which occurred. And it makes sense. It’s likely that when they were alive, not only were they a source of advice, but their opinion would likely be highly regarded. But here’s the thing.

Often times passed loved ones don’t really care what we did, or what we do. On top of that, often times when we have fights with others or decide we no longer want them to be in our lives (even people who are super close to them), they sort of shrug it off. Typically, passed loved ones don’t want any stress or malice, particularly at the expense of someone feeling uncomfortable retaining a connection or a relationship. Passed loved ones really think high level/big picture, and so that one thing you said, or that one fight you had is seemingly… meaningless.

I feel that often times our own guilt eats us alive in these types of situations. We’re uncomfortable with our decisions, and we look for validation. But unfortunately, our passed loved ones can’t really help us here, as we’re required to live with the consequences or lack there of.

But there’s really no stress about it, from their perspective. See, they know and understand that we are all infinitely connected and just “separate” and disconnect over time. Since our time on earth is just a “blip” in the evolutionary scale, they know that there’s always time to mend or continue this relationship in another point and place in time. Their priority is that everyone is happy and healthy so that they can move on with the long-term trajectory of their lives. 

While it may sound harsh, they don’t focus or fixate on the “small” things, even when they feel so large to us. I find that often times these larger arguments or disagreements set us off on a new path, which can often times be intimidating or scary. It’s part of a larger concept, theme or other energetic significance. 

Note that no matter what, our passed loved ones are always on our side. Instead of focusing or fixating on parts or aspects of your relationships here in the physical world, consider what will make you be the best person that you can be, and what will ultimately make your passed loved ones “proud” of being a connection to you.