262. How To Trigger Love

 
 

Every so often I come across profound questions, and I think this qualities. How does one trigger love?

Let’s first start with what love is. Do we truly know? I find that there are two schools of thought: Love can be one end of the vibrational spectrum. If we have negative and positive, one could assume that along side the positive spectrum is “love”. However, this could likely be argued because one can feel love when they are in a negative state. But if we consider that we are an amalgamation of parts, could you “feel” love, even if it’s a small part of you? This also ladders into the question regarding whether or not people can perceive or feel love, at all. Let’s circle back to this.

Another idea is that love is all encompassing. In other words, love is the entirety of the spectrum of human emotion. It “is” all energy. 

A last idea is that love is simply a term for/of connection. We could hypothetically deduce human’s perception of love, but ironically, it may be flawed. On top of that, if you ask lots of different people, they may have different perceptions of love, because we all have incredibly unique perception values.

So let’s talk about accessing love in general. One could ask a person if they have ever felt love. Perhaps they answer yes, but perhaps they answer no. We could hypothetically assume that there are “blockages” in which prevent someone from feeling love. Well, we do know some things about the human race, and we know that perhaps while someone may have felt love before, they are no longer accessing a sense of love. How about those who lack empathy or basic emotions? They must be blocked off from the feeling of love.

But we still cannot entirely align on what this feeling of love is. Besides the fact that it’s… a feeling. It can’t be quantified, it can’t be deduced. It’s just simply felt. Is love pain, is love peace? What does love feel like?

I’m not sure it’s my job to say what love is, but if love is a feeling or an emotion, or even a connection, I can tell you how to access it.

Hypothetically, this “feeling” of love or connection would simply ladder back to all experiences of accessing new energies. In essence, it would be “transmuting negative energy”.

You would acknowledge. Acknowledging is essentially the concept of whole heartedly making the decision that you do want to feel love in its purest form, or at least, your perception of the truest expression of love that you can have.

You would accept. Acceptance relates to “accepting” all of your parts, even the bad ones. It tackles guilt and shame. You start to understand that you are the dark parts of yourself, and that’s okay. Consider radical acceptance.

You would transmute negative energy. This is the process of seeking out new positive experiences to “wash out” the old ones. You can also do guided meditations to reframe past traumatic experiences, whether in this life or other lives.  

Let’s take a look at this process and digest. Acknowledgement. In other words, this is an intention. Perhaps love is simply a creation. Perhaps there is no real love, but one’s perception of it. Which can be created. This means that love is not only unlimited, but more than accessible/achievable by every person. It is acceptance. In other words, it does encompass the full range of human emotions, and everything and everything. Radical acceptance. But it’s also transmission, motion and discernment. Determining in this lifetime what is “right” for you and simply experiences. Boundaries only for safety, but not for fear of pain. 

In my opinion love is… brilliant.

 
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